it took me so long to realize that all that i have been lacking is having an empathetic being around me. The sensitive being always readily to jump into other people's problem and get yourself all involved and try to do anything to understand matters from the inside and not just judge from the outside. The kind that try to show understanding and support even though sometimes you don't agree but to you it doesn't matter what's right or wrong, because the only thing that matters is for me to be happy.  I like it... i like how it feels to have someone behind my back..at least I don't feel alone. 

being so used to arguing that it becomes a pattern?

giving excuses all the time that it turns into a habit?

being numbed because things happened a gazillion times?

nothing is easy...nothing comes by easily. For every single thing we do, we gotta work for it. There is no free lunch in this world.

EVEN if u are in an already-good-relationship, never take it for granted and STILL gotta work for it (even if its just maintaining it).

Excuses is childsplay. excuses is escaping... stop the lame lame excuses to defend. 

nothing is easy, just because im nice, im not a pushover. 

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Now, now honey, you better sit down and look around! Cuz you must have bumped your head, and I love you enough to talk some sense back into you baby. I hate to see you come home, me the kids and the dog is gone.
Check my credentials,
I give you everything ya want everything you need, even your friends say I'm a good woman all I need to know is why?

Why don't you love me?
Tell me baby why don't you love me?
When I make me so damn easy to love.

& Why don't you need me, tell me baby why don't you need me?
When I make me so damn easy to need.

I got beauty. I got class. I got style and I got ass.
And you don't even to care to care. Looka here
I even put money in the bank account don't have to ask no one to help me out
you don't even notice that.

Why don't you love me
Tell me baby why don't you love me
when i make me so damn easy to love.

WHy don't you need me? Tell me baby why don't you need me
when I make me so damn easy to need.

I got beauty i got heart keep my head in dem books I'm sharp but you dont' care to know I'm smart

i got moves in your bedroom, keep you happy with the nasty things I do but you don't seem to be in tune.

Why don't you love me? 
Tell me baby why don't you love me?
When I make me so damn easy to love?

Hey yeah
Why don't you need me?
Tell me baby why don't you need me?
When I make me so damn easy to need.

Nothing not to love about me

There's nothing not to love about me, no no there's nothing not to love about me, I'm lovely..
There's nothing not to need about me.
There's nothing not to need about me.

Maybe you're just not the one......

Or maybe your just plain......